Heal Sis... Love is waiting

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I've been going through it lately. My emotions have been so out of wack. I'm going to blame it on the Scorpio Moon that just passed. Sheesh! I was crying and everything. I am ready to love again. I've been in denial for so long. It was a space I felt comfortable in, but it was all wrong. I keep forgetting that words are powerful.

"I'm not ready for love right now." "Love just isn't for me." "I'll never find love."

I just watched The Photograph the other day for the first time. This movie broke me downnnnn. The story was beautiful #BlackLove. If you haven't checked it out yet, you should. We take chances in life every day. Love isn't any different. If you keep living in the past, you don't leave room for anything to blossom in the present. Everyone is a lesson, especially a person that hurt you. It's character development. Sorry to break it to you. Understand that through all of that, life goes on. You're supposed to be angry at first. You have to allow yourself to go through all of the stages. The Key to it all is healing before you move on to the next. Many of you are bringing that toxic energy into the new relationship, and you wonder why it's not working out. BUT DID YOU HEAL THOUGH????

Now, if you're really in your feelings and wanna scream FUCK LOVE, that's cool sis. Do you boo but understand something. The physical you and the spirit you are connected. Eventually, your soul will force you to face yourself. The sooner you heal, you'll feel better and see life with a new pair of eyes. Healing allows you to set the tone for how you approach a new relationship. Set those boundaries. Look out for those red flags, in the beginning, so you don't get caught up. Pay attention to the energy. If your spirit is screaming GET OUT... Listen! We can't prevent everything, but sometimes we set our selves for failure by ignoring the obvious. If that person hasn't healed themselves from their previous relationships, DEFINITELY RUN. It is 2020. You have to meet me halfway. I'm not draining myself trying to love you for you to hit me with the "I've been hurt before, and that's why I'm the way I am" excuse. I'm good on that. Imma head out.

Do yourself a favor. Follow @Melanin Messages on Facebook and Instagram. This platform is provided by two ladies who encourage conversations about relationships, dating, sex, and mental health through their podcast. They've recently created an all-male panel discussion, which allows us ladies to get in the minds of these men. They answer our burning questions based on the particular theme of the segment. Yesterday's theme was, "How do you heal after breakups?". It was a pleasing discussion. I encourage anyone who may need a little insight to check it out. This segment was live on Facebook and live-streamed on their Youtube channel. Another podcast that will get you all together is The Seeker's Dimension. You can find that podcast on the Podbean app, Spotify and YouTube. Your spirit will love it.

I'm going to take my own advice. I'm no longer in denial. I want to love and be loved. I will take my time and date. I will have fun in the process. I'm sure my future self will thank me.