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January 12th, 2009 Alexa play Be Happy by Mary J. Blige I was seriously going through some sh*t. #SelfLove is so important. I’m glad that I learned my hardest lessons during my twenties. I wouldn’t want to go back and do any do overs because I needed the pain, heartbreak. and all the suffering it came with. Some of it I caused on myself. I was repeating the same behaviors in hopes of a different outcome. I felt I was a good person so why did shit keep happening. Why was there always a black cloud hovering over me? It wasn’t until I really got honest with myself that I realized I was my own worst enemy. Those of you reading this might be in for some hard truth bombs yourself. If your answer is YES to any of the following then that tells you that it’s time to evaluate your situation and give yourself some tough love. Do you have someone in your life right now that you need to walk away from because they exude toxic energy? I bet you can’t let them go because you see the good in this person huh? BRO!! SIS!! Let em go. It’s not worth it in the long run. Some people in our life are only meant to be around for a season You think you’re in love but its lust mixed in with lies and a dead end??? Let em go... Your spirit will thank you. Even casual sex is better with someone that actually matches your vibration. The key is communication. If friends with benefits is what it is then keep it at that. You ready for the real thing? Dating with a purpose? Put your intentions out there. There will be someone who has the same vibes. Just don’t settle out of loneliness and/or desperation. Either way it goes we grown so don’t let people make you feel bad for doing you. Are you still living in fear of pursuing your dream career or any other goals because of other people’s opinion? STOP IT RIGHT NOW!!! You keep living with that mentality if you want to but they will be living their best life while you stay miserable in the same spot year after year. Opinion: a view or judgment formed about something, not necessarily based on fact or knowledge. (Google Definition) THIS YEAR IS YOUR YEAR! 🙌🏾 If you need some true motivation follow @kendallkyndall on IG. Thank me later https://instagram.com/kendallkyndall?utm_source=ig_profile_share&igshid=1ao92rtf3zdy4 Are you depressed? First off I’m with you. I suffered from it in my early teens and early twenties. I just realized something recently though. Depression will be something you can have control over but this may be something that sticks with us forever. I’m still prone to depressive episodes till this day. I used to hate to talk about my feelings. It made me feel weak. I’m so glad that eventually I changed my tune. Finding someone to talk to is definitely something I suggest to everyone. It will put everything into perspective. No one knows you better than you so take time with your healing. Also finding something to conquer that’s bigger than you and you depression helps also. It can be career goals or a certain passion you have. Example: Comedians. You’d be surprised how many get on a stage or post a video online making you laugh then they get off and continue the fight of keeping themselves happy. Making others laugh is what pushes them to continue that fight thus creating a purpose that is bigger than them. Get the help you need and don’t prolong it. You’ll be better for it. New Year, New Goals and yes definitely a New You. None of us is the same person from six months or two years ago. I’m glad my personal growth has enabled me to no longer post statuses like that one anymore. I’m personally working on the goal of following career goals. I’ve been a “victim” of selling myself short and giving up before the blessings had a chance to manifest. At this point in the game it’s either go hard and get it or stay in the slow lane while life passes me by. I don’t want to get older and wish I had followed my dreams. Many blessings to all reading. Be free to share this article with anyone you feel needs to read it 😊. Leave your feedback below